What Does Slay Mean? A Guide for Parents and Teachers

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As slang, “slay” is a compliment: it means someone did something really well.

Where “Slay” Comes From

It is older slang for doing something brilliantly, which social media spread to everyone.

How Kids Use “Slay”

Kids say “slay” to cheer a friend on: for a great outfit, a strong presentation or a top score. “You slay” or “She slayed that” both mean she did it well.

Despite how the word sounds, it is a happy word with no unkind meaning.

What Parents and Teachers Can Do

For parents: when your child says it, they are praising something. Use it back with a smile for a good report card or a tidy room.

For teachers: it is a friendly cheer, so it can be a quick, fun way to celebrate a student’s work. If a younger child is unsure, explain that here it is a compliment.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is “slay” a violent word?

Not as slang. Kids use it to say someone did a great job.

Does “slay” always mean something good?

Yes. It is a compliment, so “you slayed that” is praise.

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